Context

For generations, the Nigerian standard for fatherhood has been defined by stoicism and strict discipline rather than emotional expression. As more men open up about 'emotion-coaching' and being vulnerable with their sons, we need to ask: can this approach truly thrive in our culture, or does it make our boys 'soft'? Let's discuss if we should be teaching our sons to share their feelings more openly or if the traditional 'tough love' approach is still the best way to prepare them for the Nigerian reality.