Context

They say that once you hit your 40s in Nigeria, the dating scene shifts from a playful game to a serious negotiation. While some people argue that we are more mature and know exactly what we want, others feel the pressure of societal expectations and the scarcity of baggage-free partners makes it significantly harder. Have you experienced dating in your 40s, and would you say it is easier to find genuine connections now, or has the 'filter' become too intense?